Dating Without Algorithms™

Stop settling,
start dating above®

Where successful men and attractive women meet on their own terms. No algorithms. No swiping. You browse freely and decide for yourself.

10,000+ Verified Members
94% Reply Rate
27 Countries

Every dating app needs an algorithm. We don't.

A luxury dating platform where you set the filters, browse freely, and connect with whoever catches your eye.

Them vs. Above

Typical dating apps
An algorithm decides who you see and when
Swipe through dead profiles and fake accounts
Basic filters that barely scratch the surface
Your best options are hidden behind a paywall
Above
Browse verified members on your terms
Every member is real, selfie-verified by a human
15+ filters including income, education, lifestyle, and travel
Message directly, no mutual match required

You choose.
Not an algorithm

01

Create & Verify

Build your profile, add your best photos, and get selfie-verified by a real person. Verified members stand out and get more attention.

02

Discover Freely

Use 15+ filters to find exactly what you're looking for, then browse verified profiles at your own pace. No algorithm decides who you see.

03

Connect Directly

No matching gates. No mutual likes required. When someone catches your eye, send a message. Simple as that.

For people with
standards

Whether you're looking for a relationship, companionship, travel partners, or just seeing what's out there. Above gives you the freedom to find it on your terms.

For Gentlemen

Full access to browse, filter, and message anyone directly. One membership unlocks everything.

  • Browse the full Discovery page with 15+ filters
  • Message anyone directly, no matching required
  • Identity and income verification badges
  • Unlimited access to all verified profiles
  • Priority visibility across all members
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For Ladies

Every man on Above is a paying, verified member. You'll only find people who are actually invested in being here.

  • Full profile creation and Discovery access
  • Browse all verified members with 15+ filters
  • Receive and reply to messages
  • Favorite profiles to show your interest
  • Selfie verification badge
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What they're saying

I was done with Hinge showing me the same five people. Here I filter by what actually matters and browse on my own terms. Night and day.

★★★★★

James, 41

Tech Founder, New York

Finally a platform where I can see who someone actually is. Their career, their lifestyle, what they're looking for. No algorithm has ever known that better than I do.

★★★★★

Chiara, 26

Architecture Student, Milan

The quality of people on here is completely different. Everyone is verified, the profiles are detailed, and I can actually search for what I want instead of hoping the algorithm gets it right.

★★★★★

Oliver, 38

Investment Director, Dallas

The men on here actually put effort into their profiles. You can tell they're serious about connecting, not just swiping out of boredom.

★★★★★

Mia, 24

Model, Miami

Go above

Successful men. Attractive women. No algorithm in between. Whatever you're looking for, find it your way.

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